When you are asking Him,

Rather than focusing on who you are,

Focus on who you are asking from.

We always felt not worthy of those ‘big’ things like heaven or a good spouse,

But are we even worthy enough for anything that He ever gave?

That sip of cold water we just drank, the ability to close our eyelids, the steps that we walked or the breath that we just took?

What have we ever done to even deserve all that?

You see, it is not that we are worthy enough for anything, but it is that He, who is God, who is Arrazzaq, Arrahmaan, Arrahiim, who is worthy of giving,

And so much more.


Intimately Interwoven

I love how Baraka Blue puts it “I proceed with the firm conviction – for what reason I cannot easily say – that below the layers of persona we each wear, there is a place deep within where we all meet.”

All the “Eh! I was about to call/msg you and you beat me to it” or “I just thought about you.” Or “Are you getting married uh? Coz I dreamt you told me you are”

Sometimes, it almost felt like, our ruuh met and talked to each other even before we physically contacted each other.

And for whatever reason too, I think you got the message, even before I can even msg you, that I miss you.



Sometimes, it is not about those that were present in every anniversaries, every birthdays, graduations and all the big events in your life.

Well, they matter.

But sometimes, it is about those that were always present in every 3am breakdowns, every confused moments, every roller coaster ride (metaphorically speaking), every frustration and every teardrop.

You are lucky if there is even one around.

Keep them.



I am just that person that don’t like people to wait for me and would ask people to go first.

And I am also the one that will say to myself ‘See, you’ll never fit in. Who in the world will wait for you. Pergh.’


As much as I am used to it, there will be times that, you know, that feeling when you r weakness is staring straight back at you.

Turtle it is.

Turtle it is.

Slow and steady wins the race.


Teaching Experience

I feel like writing but I don’t feel like editing. So this post will most likely be my raw thoughts i.e all over the place and grammatically wrong.

One of the things I’ve learnt after teaching for around 8 years now (oh wow?!) is that Allah grants people with different talents. Very different strengths and weaknesses. Rezeki orang lain-lain.

Take for example me and my best friend. I am good in maths, I got distinctions over the years, maths is something I am comfortable with, a subject that I dare speak up in class if the teacher is wrong.

But english, nope. That’s my best friend’s territory, that is her A1 subject (and my worst subject ever). Up until today, I must think hard whether to use has, have, had, has been or had been…. it does not come naturally for me.

You get what I mean?

And these differences in strengths and weaknesses is also a result of how we have been brought up.

I sometimes teach Quran. There were times I asked students to memorise the sujud tilawah prayer. I chose for them the shortest one I can find, which is around 6 words. As a madrasah student, I can memorise the prayer perhaps in less than a minute. Why? Because I was brought up in an environment where I need to memorise a lot and of course because I understand arabic.

I can tell you that my student can take up to 20 minutes just to memorise that line. Why? Because she don’t understand arabic and she was not trained to memorise things.

When I am teaching, I always need to know my students’ background, strengths and weaknesses.

If I don’t then I might accidentally blurt out things like ‘why are you so slow???’

Get it? We are all different and we are all trained differently.

I was perhaps trained to study. I literally enjoyed studying. And I am someone that had tuition for literally every subject since kindergarten up till PSLE. Students are usually sent to a weekday madrasah or a weekend madrasah during kindergarten, guess what, I was sent to both.

I rarely played sports. I hate getting my hair wet. I prefer books. And talking to random people I don’t know can freak me out.

Personally I think people don’t realise how much time I spend my life studying and not meeting people that talking to people can really take a toll on me.

Do outgoing people get it? Maybe some would. Or not. Why? Because it is ‘just talking to people’. If I were to use it to these people it will be like ‘it is just maths, why can’t you do completing the square? Really.’

My body was not trained to endure much physical training. Maybe you can let me sit for a 3-hours lecture and maybe I am still concentrating. But a half hour training? Maybe not. But maybe someone else can. But in the future, with the right training, can I endure it? InsyaAllah yes. But it might take time right?

Once I understand this, I have stopped expecting people to get the grades I have achieved. I began to understand how something that I enjoyed so much like maths can be torturous for some.

What teachers need to do is to acknowledge these strengths and weaknesses: Okay I know you are not good at this, but slowly okay, we can do this. And for some, it will take time, believe me it will.



I never thought of it this way, well until one fine day.

I am not judging anyone of you people out there, but I always see it as an aib or a flaw if I was caught continuously watching something. Like how messed up am I that I continuously watch shows or videos. How low can my standard of living be. No, you were not made for this. How could you stoop so low watching things that could never benefit you and worst, harm your afterlife.

But interestingly enough, I am simply numbing myself aren’t I?

‘No, don’t think of that office job. No, no more bursting your lips. Nah, no more Macs during lunch. Nope, no more nasty toilets. Nope.’

And for some reason, unless you mix around with the right people, nobody is going to highlight that to you. Nobody is going to ‘Hey, you are kind of getting too deep in this mess.’

Except for some, or I mean, well….one.

‘You are watching Finding Dory?’……and ‘Your motive? (of sending me your funny pictures)’

Not many people will remind you your purpose in life. What is your intention in doing that? Will this benefit you or anyone? You are not created to waste time, please wake up, you are getting good at that (wasting time).