Take a pen and a piece of paper
If you can’t then close your eyes
What do want in this life?
If I ask you to list at least five
What will if be?
I can assure you marrying that person will not be in it
You want peace
His forgiveness and His redha
To be able to see Him and His beloved صلى الله عليه وسلم
To be able to practice His religion and his sunnah
To be able to enter Jannah together with your parents without hisab
Yes its gonna hurt
But now look
Its the reason now you go to Him saying